Health & Lifestyle | Posted on November 24th, 2020 | return to news
Father and son living more than 4,000 miles apart re-unite at care home
This was only possible thanks to a visiting lounge which allows safe face-to-face interaction with use of a Perspex screen.
International travel has been nigh impossible during the pandemic, so it was a very special treat when a 100-year-old father and his son, who live 4,300 miles apart, were able to be re-united for the first time in months.
Andre Mauger, lives at Great Oaks care home in Bournemouth and his son Simon lives in Alberta Canada.
The visit was possible as Encore Care Homes has launched a covid-safe visiting lounge at all three of its care homes in Dorset, and at its home in Hampshire. They feature a floor-to-ceiling Perspex screen, intercom system and hearing loop, offering a safe and comfortable, dedicated place for face-to-face interaction.
On 5 November, just before the UK’s second lockdown, Simon flew over to see his father for the first time since Andre moved to Great Oaks in March. Following his flight, Simon self-isolated for two weeks but says that it was all worth it for the happy look on his father’s face when he set eyes on his son in the visiting lounge.
Simon said, “It felt great. He almost ran into the room. I think it’s very well set up. A lot of places don’t have the resources, room and exterior access to set up something like this, so this is really very good.”
Simon said that his father, who was born in Normandy, has very good long-term memory but can sometimes experience short-term memory loss. However, they speak almost every day on video call, and Andre also speaks to his daughter, Catherine, who lives nearby.
“He misses seeing me. I know that he misses seeing family overall but because I’m overseas, I think it’s always a little harder for him. He keeps asking if we’re going to meet without the glass screen, so that we can hug, but obviously that’s not going to happen yet.”
Asked how he felt about seeing his son, Andre said, “It was very nice as I probably only see him once a year. It’s not the same as a family meeting in person, but it’s nice because he came especially to see me. I hope next time I see him, I’ll be able to share a hug. I hope this doesn’t go on for years and years.”
Andre’s 100th birthday was marked by the team at Great Oaks on 31 August with a party featuring a specially-made cake, balloons, and a card from the Queen. He enjoys many activities at the care home including word games and helped to craft a poppy wreath for the Remembrance Day memorial display at Great Oaks.
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